I have so much appreciation for the little home we’ve built. This year is full of transition and challenges, but having a sanctuary to navigate it all from is truly a blessing of my own making. 2021 has been the first year where I have slowed down enough to truly appreciate my present. I haven’t had the mental save or desire to constantly look toward the future or next accomplishment. It’s a liberating feeling to look around and not only feel I have enough, but everything I have wanted. That’s not to say all my ambitions are out the window, they just aren’t as urgent as they once were. I know that I time they will come with my small everyday efforts, and in the meantime I can just savor where I am right now.
A SoCal Road Trip: Photo Diary
The drive up the Pacific Coast Highways is probably on of the biggest perks to living in southern California. One of my favorite activities is planning a getaway and researching new spots to stop and explore along the way. Maybe eventually I’ll share some of my favorite itineraries, but for now here are a few of my favorite captures from my latest escape.
My Sezane Collection | Spring 2022
I've recently fallen in love with Sezane and built up a small collection. Today I will share my spring pieces including some try-ons! Links to each piece are below as well as the sizes I own.
Will Jacket (M)
Milo Shirt (M)
Sexy Brut Jean (28, returned. Find out why in the video)
Mathilda Shirt (M)
Parisian Style 10x10 Capsule | Spring 2022
My Capsule:
4. Jenni Kayne Slip Dress (get 15% off with my affiliate code GINAS15)
7. Jenni Kayne Cocoon Cardigan (get 15% off with my affiliate code GINAS15)
On Taking Breaks, Part 2
Five years ago I wrote a post on taking breaks, how important it is for me and what I do to refill my cup when I take one. With a half decade of distance between that past version of me then and me now, I have some new thoughts on the importance of breaks.
Last week war broke out in Europe, that in itself is a loaded statement because truly the full scale invasion of Ukraine by Putin has been coming for 8 years. With this invasion comes a multitude of other systemic issue brought to the surface for examination. How society’s dependence on fossil fuels is paying for this war and contributed to inaction since the aggression has started. How racism and white supremacy is playing out in real time with no effort to even veil it. And blatant hypocrisy in American politics, ready to mislead and divide in a moment where the urge should be to unite.
World events like these, especially ones distant where I feel I have very little I can do to influence an outcome always bring a sense of hopelessness for humanity. At least for a while. But these are the times that I am reminded to step away from my curated algorithmic bubble that is social media, and dive into myself, my community, and the things in my environment I can have a hand at bettering.
I believe world peace starts in each individual. It begins with eradicating hate and prejudice in our own hearts. I continues with our actions wishing our own families and communities. Peace is a rebellious and ongoing act that will require each of us. And I for one cannot do this kind of continuous act with out taking time away from the continuous scroll, the constant intake of media and “hot takes,” and reflect on how I show up in this world to help make it the tiniest bit better. All this to say, I have been taking a break from social media and anything else that feels like a distraction. Instead I have been having dialogue with those I trust, processing my emotions and fears, and educating myself. All of these feel like fortifying acts so I can continue to show up in my own unique way with hope and energy for a better future.
Conscia Hair Care: First Impressions
I am back with another plastic-free, low packaging product introduction (and review to come!). What I am unboxing today is Conscia, a hair and scalp health product in the form of a shampoo and conditioner bar. Conscia reached out to me to try some of their products and after scouring their website I was excited to see what their product was like. Watch the video for more about them and the products they sent me!
Palm Springs 2022
Another winter getaway to the desert, this time I made a highlight reel.
Revisiting 2017 Memories
Before moving to LA my partner and I visited. We had plans to leave days before but we’re delayed by a blizzard that hit NYC. Just months before Trump had been sworn in and the future felt uncertain. The Getty Center was one of the first places we visited (after the beach). Los Angeles itself was so much slower than New York. I’d felt lighter, warmer (in temperature and tone), and slower. Slower was something I desperately needed. We didn’t know at the time how LA would stick in our minds. We certainly had no idea that by Thanksgiving the fates would have brought us here. It was the biggest risk to leave the city we both loved and fought to thrive in. My birthplace and heritage. But with great risk came great reward and now my chosen home feels more like me than I could have ever imagined.
A Day in the Life Vlog
Oak Essentials First Impressions
For the past few months I have been trying out some new skincare products from Jenni Kayne. Oak Essentials is a cruelty free, non-GMO, and organic product line. Watch the video below for my honest first impressions of the five foundational products, also known as “the routine.”
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Sew On A Button With Me
Join me for a relaxing mending session. In this video I share how I sew back on a missing button.
Gratitude Pages no. 3
Another round of things I have jotted down in my gratitude journal lately.
This week’s gratitude journal glimpses:
Incredible authors who pen stories you can get lost in. Lately I have been reading more and it feels incredible.
The way the afternoon light streams into the house and gives me a second burst of inspiration near the end of the day.
The changing season, I have been pulling out my sweaters and coziest clothing and it feels great to shop my own wardrobe.
The Gift of Presence
I’m laying on the beach, having just cracked open another book about minimalism, when my husband who left just moments ago enters my periphery. I notice a huge smile on his face as he outstretches his arm to me and drops two cold, wet rocks into my hand.
“There’s lots of rock over there. We’ll go together when I get back,” he says before heading back to the ocean.
My whole body feels with warmth and I admire the beautiful stones. These are the moments that I live for. The things that really matter. What is missed when I am not living in the present. What a gift his little reminder was. A gift of his attention and thoughtfulness, but also a gentle reminder to myself to be here, now.
What I Wore Last Week
Another week of outfit documentation! This week I made an effort to wear pieces I haven’t reached for lately and style them in new ways.
Outfit 1: Two Days Off Vicki Pant in moss, Universal Thread shirt, and Eileen Fisher mule slides.
Outfit 2: Two Days Off Two Days Off Okaasan Tie Top, Arq Tank Top, and Zara Jeans.
Outfit 3: Two Days Off Kaneko Dress in natural linen worn as a duster, Arq Tank Top, Aliya Wanek pants, and Jenni Kayne bucket bag (15% off with code GINAS15).
Outfit 4: Two Days Off Koto Skirt in black linen, Aurorei Yuna Top, and Kaneko Dress in natural linen worn as a duster, Jenni Kayne crossover sandals (15% off with code GINAS15).
The Best Pillows for Great Sleep
A few weeks ago I decided that I had enough bad sleep nights and took to the internet for help. I went to Instagram to crowdsourced recommendations from my side and back sleepers. To my surprise, I was not the only one enthusiastic about good sleep and I got tons of environmentally friendly pillow suggestion back!
I ended up purchasing two of the Coyuchi Turiya pillows for my husband and I. Watch my review below to see how it went… spoiler alert, we are returning one of them and maybe you can guess why.
If you are interested in trying anything from Coyuchi use my referral link for $60 off orders over $300 (I can get a $60 credit too!).
In case you are interested, here are the some of the other back/side sleep pillow recommendations I received on Instagram. I choose the Turiya this one based on the many passionate endorsements I received in my DMs!
Easy DIY Zero-Waste Air Freshener
Sometime at the start of the pandemic I started noticing it was harder to keep odors out of the house. Being inside 24/7 and constantly cooking all meals at home made keeping the air fresh a full time job. In Southern California, where I live, it isn’t always easy to just open all the windows to air our the house. Sometime the air quality is terrible (hello wildfires), or once in a while it is simply too hot/cold. That’s where this super simple DIY comes in handy!
I started making my own air freshener with left over coffee grinds and baking soda. I saw this from one of my favorite Youtubers and let me tell you, it works like a charm! It’s truly amazing and now I keep several of these concoctions around the house at all times (every closet has one!).
It’s super easy to make, the only real trick is to make sure you let your coffee grinds dry out completely before making. I collect our grinds and spread them out in a thin layer for a couple of days before use. Then I just mix equal parts of coffee and baking soda together in a jar, glass or cotton pouch and done!
Gratitude Pages no. 2
Another week of 2021 gone and all I can think about is how is September nearly over? Even the start of the year is a blur much less the spring and summer.
Another few glimpses from my “journal” this week:
The courage to start fresh. Specifically, choosing to move to California four years ago, but also in so many other ways.
A quiet home. I love the peace. I grew up in a big family so I was used to noise but I much prefer a bit of silence.
Options. Sometimes decision-making can feel like a burden, particularly the big life decisions. But in actuality it’s a privilege to have options. To have autonomy to direct your life as you wish, what a gift to have options to do and to try.
Affirmations of the Week
It was recently suggested to me to try out affirmations. I have to be honest, the thought of saying affirmations out loud to myself made me uncomfortable (although I love reading others’ on Instagram like the one below). And for that reason alone I wanted to examine why, first by trying them out.
My personal affirmation of the week:
I am tender yet resilient. I am precisely where I ought to be and what a beautiful place it is.
What I Wore Last Week
Another week of outfit documentation! This week I made an effort to wear pieces I haven’t reached for lately and style them in new ways. It’s a bit of a test as I get closer to October (when I am planning a huge closet clear out!).
Outfit 1: Two Days Off Olivia Top in ivory over my Jenni Kayne slip dress (15% off with code GINAS15). Tree Fairfax extended half moon bag, and Wilder Maude slides.
Outfit 2: Two Days Off Suki Dress in clay linen, Elizabeth Suzann linen vest, and Wilder Maude Slides.
Outfit 4: Two Days Off Kaneko Dress in natural linen worn as a duster, Jenni Kayne tee dress in sage (15% off with code GINAS15), my well loved Eileen Fisher mule slides, and my A.P.C. half moon demi bag in nut brown.
Outfit 5: A relaxed Friday repeat from last week. My Two Days Off Mioko Duster in natural linen, ARQ tank top, Madewell double gauze pants, and my beloved Jenni Kayne Shearling Slides (15% off with code GINAS15).
Birthday Photo Dump + Reflections
Another revolution around the sun and another year wiser. The past year brought with it a lot more wisdom and a total reshaping of my priorities so I need to write them down to see if they stick.
But first, I had a quiet and lovely birthday. The celebrations started with another beloved Wysocki puzzle and the next day my guy surprised me with a trip to the Getty Museum. I’ve missed museums during the pandemic, and the Getty is one of my all time favorites. Being there reminded me of how simple life can be when I am not busy complicating it. A stroll around gardens, learning something new in the presence of some you love. Bliss.
Last year I didn’t celebrate my birthday. My grandmother passed away about a week before and I was in the thick of grieving. Her death has become an inflection point in my life. Through my grief I recognized that although she lived a simple life, she left the most beautiful legacy. Once centered on compassion and generosity. Over the past year since, I have been reflecting on what my “legacy” will be.
The answer so far is elusive. But between my grief and the pandemic I have become more sensitive to time, and specifically how I spend it. So I know if I give myself more time the answers will come.
The thing about time is that it is what you make it. I spend a lot of my time working, and work brings me a lot of fulfillment. But I take pleasure in so many other things, like learning about an obscure painting like the one above, which I want to spend more time on.
And of course most importantly, who I spend my time with. The biggest lesson of them all. This one I am listening to my gut about. Lately there is a lot less of who I should be spending time with and more of who I crave more time with.
All in all, what a year. What a blessing to celebrate in my own way, and here is hoping for more growth and happiness in the next.